You want get your ex-girlfriend back ? And you only have SMS in mind to do it? Above all, know that you can also call her or even visit her directly at her home. However, texting has this disinhibiting ability that makes it the ideal weapon if you want to send the perfect message without her realizing how much time or effort it took.
When to send your ex this famous SMS?
Many people make the mistake of sending the message at the worst possible time. And that moment is when your emotions are still way too intense. You should absolutely avoid doing this just a few hours before your separation. It’s even better to wait a few days for you to regain your composure before thinking about sending that famous SMS to get it back. The ideal is to give yourself some time to calm down and take stock of what caused you to be separated now. Now you have to think about the content of the text if you are sure you want to get back together.
What your SMS should contain
- Make him want your text.
- She should be happy to receive a text from you.
- She should be looking forward to reading more.
- Make him associate your texts with something exciting.
- Make him want to respond to you immediately after receiving your text.
- Encourage him to continue the dialogue.
- Make him want to take it to the next level (call or face-to-face).
The first message to send
The key with the first text is that it must be simple, short, with a touch of nostalgia and a little funny. This is a very well-known technique for resuming contact and it works. The idea is that you use something that reminds you of your ex and tell them so. The key to this text is to keep it light. If possible, add a little humor. You want her to believe that you’re not so desperate anymore and that you won’t really try to talk about getting back together.
Tell him something like:
“Hey, I was passing through the area and came across this Japanese restaurant that we loved so much. It brought me back to you and our sushi night after watching Avengers. Actually, are you okay?
Use an excuse and be frank
“I just went to this hellish party yesterday with Eric and Manon. It was amazing and I wish you were there with me.” Note that you are talking about a couple of mutual friends here.
Play the understanding card
“Honestly, part of me wants to come back. But I agree with whatever happens. I understand why the breakup happened and realized it was for the best. I’m feeling good right now and to be honest, I’m just texting you because I miss talking to you. I have no other ulterior motives. I just want to see what happens.”
