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How do I know if he loves me ?

Haaaa the big question of love! How do I know if this boy feels something for me or if, like the others, he only thinks about ending up in my bed… With this article, I will try to explain to you how to detect in a boy if he has romantic feelings for you . And to reassure you, know that it is a man who writes these lines.

Does he love me?

Men are not less profound than women, they are above all much more modest when it comes to talking about their feelings. It’s like an admission of weakness to tell someone that you love them, but above all, above all! A man is terrified of being rejected when he confesses his feelings. Here are some clues that will allow you to know a little more about him.

I feel like he wants to tell me something…

Men delay the fateful moment of “I love you”. They try to find the best moment and turn the words over and over in their heads to know what will be the best formula to use… It can take a long time. The man in this case becomes very romantic or even too romantic and postpones the moment until you are together in front of a beautiful summer sunset. Bad luck, you can also be in love in winter. Boys when they are in love have a lot of trouble hiding their game, if you see that he is trying to tell you something, don’t force his hand.

On the other hand, if you have been together for years and he has never said “I love you”, there is a good chance that his feelings towards you are not love but loving affection…

He buys you gifts

Thousands of years ago, man was going to kill a wild boar to prove his love, today he goes shopping… If you receive gifts from him, you may think that he has feelings for you , especially if a certain embarrassment is present when he offers them to you. Man buys things out of fear that his own person is not enough to seduce. It is an act of compensation. If the I love you message is slow in coming despite everything, you will have to think about telling him first because for some men, giving a gift means that he loves you.

On the other hand, if the gifts are not accompanied by a romantic approach, this can also mean that he will not make an effort and that he is giving you a gift to calm your expectations or to make amends.

He spends time with you

Most men hate shopping or sharing the company of your best friend who has the annoying tendency to talk about girly things. The boy experiences exactly the same feeling as when you spend the afternoon with him and his best friend talking about Thai boxing or football. So yes, it’s an effort for him and the proof is that he does it for you and only for you. And if his gaze constantly seeks yours, it is because the young man is not far from making his declaration to you, you still need to give him the signs of opening.

On the other hand, if the guy squats at your house and steals your cigarettes and the fridge and spends his time in front of the console he brought with him…. Next.

He hums songs

The songs we hum are often messages that our unconscious sends us. Pay close attention to the songs he hums, maybe one of them represents the feelings he has for you, especially if it’s a love song that came to his mind. Rest assured, the songs he hums are not representative of these musical tastes. Continue the song with him and invite him to dance for laughs, this could trigger the long-awaited thing.

Why don’t you tell him you just love him

In the collective mind, man must be the first to say I love you. He must prove his sensitivity like a gallant knight declares his wife to his beloved. Wake up, you are independent, study or work, the rules are no longer the same, you too can declare your love, if these feelings are there, he will respond in the same way. And I’m going to tell you a secret, when a man is with a girl with whom he is almost in love, his I love you has a very powerful effect on his decision. Sometimes all it takes is one I love you to completely trigger the love of the other.

But be careful, love goes both ways, if you feel that the other is not in the same state of mind as you and even if it tears your heart, ignore it and move on. and tell yourself that somewhere, there is a man who already loves you, be sure of it.

Notez-Moi !

Willy Author