Writing messages is still the number 1 act in our lives on the Internet today, even if watching videos or listening to music is very close behind. But the message is also the bearer of your words and represents a part of yourself for others. It is through messages that we form a second opinion about you, the first being the photo.
If it contains a lot of spelling mistakes, if it uses SMS language, it’s a bad start. So first of all, take care to correct your mistakes, it’s not a big deal either if there are one or two left.
Subsequently, to maximize your chances of not making a mistake, you must rely on the details that you have from the other and which are related to you. Use the information you find on their profile to start a discussion, this will prove your interest in them. This little detail that doesn’t take a lot of time is:
- The best thing to do when you’re polite
- Increases your response rate by 20%
Be ENTHUSIASTIC
Each of your messages must exude enthusiasm and make the other person want to laugh or smile. Since the online message is something “lifeless”, it is appropriate to give it warmth and lots of color.
Spell the words
No slt, tkt. We are not here to save time but to take our time to get to know each other. SMS language should be banned if you want to be credible to the person receiving the message.
BE INTERESTED in each other
Ask him questions and avoid using “me I”. Asking someone a question doesn’t make you talk about yourself. When you ask a question, don’t give your opinion in the title either.
example: What do you think about dating sites?
And
Dating sites are blah, right?
You see it with a simple sentence, you can give your opinion without even being asked the question.
Use the second degree
To know the state of mind of a person on dating sites, do not hesitate to use the second degree in your messages. It will allow you to detect whether the recipient has a sense of humor. And if your little joke hits the mark, you can bet that you will score valuable points.
A message must contain everything, especially the first one. Sending it off can make you regret not having taken more care to write it well. And then you know, love can come from a single message. Sometimes it comes down to very little.
