So you think you’re in love. Are you sure? How? Why do you think you are in love? Why do you think it’s not a temporary attraction? Why do you think you are both destined to grow old together? Let’s try to find out.
Do you feel happy with your loved one? Do you feel like if you were both left alone on an island for seven days you’d enjoy it? Or will you get bored? How about your self-esteem? Does your loved one make you feel good about yourself? Is his focus on your good qualities or sometimes flaws? And you? Are you looking for some signs of weaknesses in certain areas, or are you happy with the whole package?
Love is different from any other relationship and has its own measures. It goes beyond friendship and you have to ask questions to know if it is love and nothing else. Coming back to our investigation, what if your loved one gives you clothes? Will you be happy and wear it immediately, or will you try to look at it critically to find out how you will look in this particular piece of clothing?
Do you smile at the thought of your loved one? Are you dreaming? Want to share everything good? Say, you see something good, or complete a certain work very satisfactorily, will you immediately tell your loved one about it? Do you want to look forward to sharing this?
Have you ever compared it with others? Giving someone of the opposite sex a second look? Not? What to do if the person is stunning in looks? Would you still prefer to never think about giving a second look and continuing with thoughts of your loved one? What if you go to the movies together? Will you try to watch each other in the dark or rather watch the movie? Do you watch the movie while you’re together?
Are you planning the future together? Have children, a new house, a new life, etc? Do you talk about how you would like to spend your old age together? Have you also thought about career options after marriage?
If your answers to all the above queries is positive, you need to consider the relationship seriously. Because you are in love!
Love is hard to find. Many times we feel like we are in love, only to find out it wasn’t love. It’s best to make sure it’s love before committing. I wish you all the best.
